Before? - To Meditate 
What should be spoken?
The Christian dating is the stage of loving knowledge between the child and the child. It's time to recruit and attract the beloved. Normally, the Christian dating looking for a future commitment: marriage. Christian is not far to pass the time, its main commitment is to God. Thus, concerns the life of another person as much as yours.
lovers should take as a model for Christian family life. Priority should be given a total of deep love, not a passion. It is important that the young man prefers a woman who is a member of Christian denomination. This is not true generally, but certainly avoid many future problems.
Parents must be notified, children should be obedient and faithful to the trust that their parents lay.
Many Christian couples, lack dialogue, bringing home to dozens of questions that can be damaged, and much, your marital relationship.
The engagement and commitment do not exist by chance, this is the time when God will work for each other. Is the time to learn, because I was born in a major update and the friendship that grows stronger every day.
The couple will have the opportunity to really know if that person is likely that, in fact, her future husband. The goal of Christian dating should be mutual understanding and the pleasure of friendship.
lovers must have the commitment and purpose with God. The alliance is that couples in the dating of fidelity to the Lord. The procession had to be pure and holy. Of course, the young couple can hold hands and act naturally, always respecting each other. When the couple decides to compromise, no more than halfway done.
is very important that at least some months before the wedding, the two have a conversation about their lives. Issues such as women work out domestic tasks, the preference not to have children soon, mealtime, pets, control of household expenses, among dozens of other things seem unimportant, but they make a huge difference between four walls.
is very important that the couple also studied separately for Christian. Everyone must know their engagement and responsibility to one another.
seeking guidance in the books without life, mixing science with extra-biblical concepts, is ignorance and will only bring confusion to the couple. Pay attention to the conversations of colleagues to tell "stories" about the sexual area is opening the door for the devil act subtly.
The life of the new couple has to be formed from what we build with love, respect and support the Bible, not impressionable. God loves the bed undefiled! "The honor of being with you all marriages and the bed undefiled. For fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4)
